Female Submissives & Dominant Men…
Have you noticed how many women fantasize about being female submissives? I’ve met a variety of women— from students, nurses, secretaries, and models, to professionals like doctors, lawyers and business executives— that wanted to be female submissives.
She Discovered How Female Submissives Surrender…
Then How Female Submissives Experience New Adventures…
Can you imagine what sexually turns women on about surrendering as female submissives? Let’s start with what got me interested in this topic.
At a Cafe in Montréal
While in Montréal last year a lady friend asked me to join her at a cafe. She’s a quiet librarian type and I was at first taken aback when she mentioned that she was interested in being a female submissive.
She was introduced to the idea of female submissives by reading 50 Shades of Grey. Like many of her college girlfriends, her interest in the role of female submissives and BDSM (bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism) became insatiable.
First, I reminded her that 50 Shades of Grey was fiction. Then I suggested some other books— based on real-life BDSM with female submissives— including Conquer Me, ScrewThe Roses- Send Me The Thorns, and The Sensual Shaman’s Diaries.
Filled with her growing excitement, she switched the conversation from female submissives to ask what I knew about BDSM subspace.
I explained that subspace is the much-coveted euphoric state that female submissives can be trained to experience. Subspace produces a dissociated “floating or flying” sensation in female submissives that feels like an out-of-body experience.
I told her some friends— in the BDSM community— and I had recently talked about exploring how to guide female submissives in their subspace “Flying” experience to do remote viewing.
I told her after we worked out the details, we would interview some female submissives as candidates. She without any hesitation volunteered for the project!
Having read The Sensual Shaman’s Diaries she asked if the female submissives subspace experiences and the White Tiger Tantra Deep Reflection state were similar.
I told her that both techniques produced euphoric states and the submissives mind’s released some very pleasant neurochemicals.
However, how sensual energy benefits are used in White Tiger Tantra female submissives and in BDSM female submissives is quite different.
Also, in The Sensual Shaman’s Diaries, the multiple full body orgasms flood the female submissives bodies with a pleasure cocktail… with an afterglow that can last for hours, days or even weeks.
This is similar to what Dr. Wilhelm Reich talked about when he released ego-free sustained full body orgasms to alleviate stress and tension from a woman’s body.
My friend directed our chat back to female submissives again.
She asked, other than 50 Shades of Grey what I thought might have influenced this current surge of female submissives interest in classical BDSM like that in Screw The Roses- Send Me The Thorns?
I suggested that— while female submissives have a unique situation— whatever interested her about the female submissives lifestyle might be similar to what attracts other women. Then I asked her directly, “What about entering the world of female submissives is most appealing to you?”
She smiled timidly and said, “Most guys I meet don’t seem very authentic. Besides the whole idea of being in a community of female submissives in Dominance and submission (D/s) relationships just totally excites me.”
Furthermore, in her research when she discovered female submissives could enter into subspace through bondage and discipline (B/D) she instantly knew she wanted that experience.
Suggested Books for Female Submissives
For women interested in being female submissives, I usually recommend Conquer Me and The Sensual Shaman’s Diaries. Both of these books were written from a female submissive’s perspective.
I also suggest the first BDSM book I read Screw The Roses- Send Me The Thorns which was written by a Dominant man and his partner, a female submissive.
All these books— even 50 Shades of Grey—have Dominant heterosexual men with their female submissives in BDSM relationships. All of these books are prerequisite reading for any submissives that want to wear one of my collars.
The Sustained Interest in BDSM
The BDSM interactions or scenes described in 50 Shades of Grey, The Sensual Shaman’s Diaries and Screw The Roses- Send Me The Thorns are— according to hard-core BDSM enthusiasts— just an introduction to traditional BDSM.
Still, BDSM communities are growing, especially with dominant heterosexual men and female submissives wanting to explore this alternative lifestyle.
You probably already know the fictional 50 Shades of Grey has been credited with stimulating much of the current interest in BDSM.
But what else has sustained this budding interest? And how did BDSM, this once taboo subject become so incredibly popular? What helped BDSM erotica blossom?
50 Shades of Grey may have sown the seeds of kink fascination in some very fertile soil.
Yet, if necessity watered this garden of thoughts, then anticipation nurtured it into a bumper crop for an insatiable audience… searching for a lifestyle.
A lifestyle with an attraction and interest in books based on real-life BDSM like The Sensual Shaman’s Diaries and Conquer Me.
While the classic Screw The Roses- Send Me The Thorns has stood the test of time as an introduction to the BDSM Lifestyle.
Modern Romance & Wannabe Female Submissives
Has your sweet little lady suggested going out to watch the 50 Shades of Grey movies? Perhaps she’s surprised you with gifts like a set of fur-lined handcuffs, a leather blindfold or an assortment of flogs?
If so, she’s giving you some pretty blatant hints.
Not sure where to start?
Before you blindfold your woman and cinch her up to a wall and start flogging her backside, my suggestion is you both sit down and clearly discuss some agreed upon boundaries.
If explicit boundaries are carefully negotiated as they are in Conquer Me, BDSM scenes can be safe, adventurous and exciting.
You might also read through Screw The Roses- Send Me The Thorns to discover some practical ideas regarding how to negotiate and navigate an agreed upon BDSM scene.
Stranger Than Fiction
Life really can be stranger than fiction.
My nice librarian-looking friend shifted the conversation again. As she described becoming totally immersed in a cycle of anticipation with persistent thoughts about BDSM… her excitement built.
She bluntly asked what was required to become a White Tiger Tantra model.
After we discussed the prerequisites for her becoming a White Tiger Tantra model, I suggested two writing assignments.
First, since she’d already read 50 Shades of Grey, I suggested she journal a couple pages about what fascinated her most about the story.
Next, I recommended as she read The Sensual Shaman’s Diaries again she should take notes. Then notice how the real-life Dominance and submission compared to what she had anticipated.
Can you imagine how long this quiet librarian-type lady waited to awaken her submissive fantasies, desires, and adventures?
If you’re interested in how sexual fantasies can become real, then this will be the most important sexual resource you can read, to help you guide women from sexual frustration to sensual elation.